Life's been flying past me at record speeds just like Martin's fluff friend oink. (those of you who have the fluffy friend pets application on Facebook will understand and those of you who don't it's really fast). J went to his first "meeting" and seems to have a great attitude towards life again. I'm going to support him in whatever way I can. I always believe we can get more out of our lives if given the tools and support needed. I know that I don't have to do this but I want to